Politician has a warm heart

Many people think that politician is a fake fellow who comes with a purpose.He wants names, fame's and he is not genuine.But I think politician has a warm heart. I had been mixing around with politicians lately and I see they respond quickly to people who need helps.They concern about the well being of the public.Though they have to fight for the positions among themselves but for a purpose, I think, "To serve the people". David is my good friend and he is a politician. One day ,late in the evening he called me to help a lady who has no home to go back to.David paid for her food and accommodation for the night. We dealt with this case for many days and at last settled.Whenever there is a case, David quickly visits the victim and shows his concern, sympathy and empathy. Franky is another politician whom I knew for a long time. Before Franky was elected as the representative, he is a helpful man. He always help people for no purpose. He is kind hearted, as I said, he got a warm heart.In short I would say that without a warm heart, you wouldn't choose to be a politician. Many people don't want to be a politician. Not all politician can become rich, though some were, many of them giving more than taking.I remember my friends once warned me : You mustn't be too close with those politician, one day they use you for their purposes and you will get hurt. But I didn't take the advice because I have a different opinion about politicians. I can feel their warm hearts. They themselves might not realise it, but this is a character they must own to be a politician. I am nothing in compare to them. If in this life people can use you, that mean you are useful.I want to say this to the politician , you know why you want to be a politician? Because you have a warm heart!!

Get yourself out from other people's mind

I was attending to a case whereby a lady claimed that her suffering was due to her boyfriend who tortured her mentally . How could this happen? Well this is how the story goes.
" Sometimes I wanted to be just with my children, but if I don't invite him , he probably will think that I am trying to leave him out. But when he turns up, I feel hatred and annoyed at the sight of his appearance."
"I planned to go back for Chinese New Year, but if I go, he might think that I want to runaway from him, I stay back but felt very upset about the matter, what should I do?"
"I can't even make new friends, if I do he probably think that I am trying to push him away?"
So, What is wrong with this lady? Yes, she is living in other people's mind. She worries too much about what other people might think...

1. You are not bond to this person, why cares...let him think what he wants to think, you must do what you think is good and right for you.
2. You cannot stop other people from thinking , let it be..
3 Be genuine, just be yourself, learn to say 'NO' when necessary. Let put yourself the first priority, other people , NEXT.

Lets jump out from his mind, if you don't love him , say so. No need to be over obliging,especially in the interpersonal relationship matter. Many people are not happy because they are not genuine, they try to please others and fulfill other people's wishes.